| Location | Ballymena |
| Age | 1 day |
| Cause of Death | Cot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome |
| Date of Birth | 19/09/2008 |
| Date of Death | 20/09/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,238 since 17/11/2008 |
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Ella-Mae was born at only 26 weeks gestation at 6:16pm on the 19th September 2008. She weighed just 1lb 9oz. Ella was mine and my fiances first baby and we were so overjoyed to be pregnant, then when i went into labour at 26 weeks due to spontaneous membrane rupture we were terrified. Deep down we knew she wouldnt make it but we hoped and prayed until the minute she was born. She was beautiful, perfect in everyway. She was strong though, a real fighter, she stayed alive against the odds for just over 25 hours and finally gave up the fight at 7:34pm on the 20th September. I still have her nursery ready for her. nappies and milk still in the cupboards. I should still be pregnant now with my little angel who was due on boxing day.
We miss you every minute of every day sweetie. I hope she's having fun playing with all the other angels in the clouds. R.I.P Ella-Mae Smith you're always in our hearts xxx
its been nearly 3 years baby girl and your birth still seems like yesterday. we all think of you all the time. I hope you found your cousin jada last year and i hope youre together and happy. love you angel xxx
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELLA-MAE
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Ella-Mae
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELLA-MAE
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love you take care big hugs to you
and your family that miss you ever
day more then words can say take
care bye for now love from me
Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger
Happy Birthday
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hello beautiful.
Hope you are having fun with your angel friends. The family are missing you like mad and think about you every day. You have a little brother now, please watch over him and mummy until you are all together again.
Aunty jojo xxxx
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A Birthday In Heaven - by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xxx
You Gave You Took Away - by Sharon Wheeler
As I travel across this land
There is something missing today
It’s my Angel child
The one God took away
He gave me that beautiful child
Then he took them straight away
What was the point I asked
As I knelt down and prayed
I never got to see my child play
And grow like all the others
I thought Lord that was my job
A child, and me to be the Mother.
I never even got any warning
Nothing was ever said
I woke up that sunny morning
To find my sweet child dead.
You gave them life, you stole it
You broke my heart in two
Why? Why? Dear Lord
That’s all I ask from you?
Copyright© Sharon Wheeler
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MUM PLEASE LISTEN
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Mum, please listen to me,
as i take the time to write.
I see parents struggling daily,
Their pain is such a fight...
All of us who've gone
And left the rest of you behind...
We're ok, Mum,i promise
Heaven is beautiful and God is kind.
You used to tell me that one day
God would call and take you home,
you told me you'd make me strong
so i would stand tall when alone.
But thing's happen, Mum
That does not go in our plans,
I wasn't scared Mum,
When God held out his hand.
I didn't want to leave you
I didn't have time to say good-bye,
When the Angels said ''come with us''
There wasn't time to question why.
I've watched you daily, Mum.
It hurts to see you cry
I dont want you to be unhappy'
Just because we didn't get to say good-bye.
Tell others what i'm telling you
So many parents need to know,
That earth was just a layover
We had another place to go.
I know you miss me, Mum
I know your heart was broken in two.
But God really needed me
Because my earthly life was through.
I'm always alongside you...
I smile and touch your hair.
I whisper''Mum, i love you''
You just can't see me there.
I'm the one that gently touches you
On your shoulder when you're sad,
Im happy that you've finally found
God again, and are no longer mad.
Tell the parents, Mum for me
That all of us kids are okay.
God has plans for our lives
When he called us home that day.
I love you, Mum, I always will
And remember i'm not far away
We're going to be together again
When God calls out your name.
Darling Ella-Mae, we all miss you so so much, cant believe youre not with us now. Your mummy and daddy miss you more than anything and hope you are now at peace. I hope youre having fun up in heaven. We hope you find our nanna to watch over you till we can all be with you again. I am so sorry i couldnt get to see you before you crossed over to a better place. watch over me and the boys baby. xxxxx
THE CORD!
We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye.
It’s not like the cord that connects us at birth,
this cord can’t be seen by any on earth.
This cord does its work right from the start,
it binds us together, attached by the heart
I know that it’s there, though no one can see
this invisible cord, from my child to me.
The strength of this cord,
it’s hard to describe,
it can’t be destroyed, it can’t be denied.
It’s stronger than any cord man could create;
it withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone and you’re not here with me,
the cord is still there though no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised, I am sore,
but this cord is my lifeline as never before.
I’m thankful that God connects us this way,
a mother and child…Death can’t take it away.
xxxxxxx
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